Do you own your life? What you and your kids deserve.

Parents who work hard in their job to feed their children are most respectable. some worked so hard, 1/3 of their life is spent working. That's a huge sacrifice. For survival and their children they easily have not much personal time for themselves except the occasional 1-2 hrs on some weekdays and maybe one day of an weekend to do grocery shopping. But what's worst is, having spent so much time working, they also missed out in 2/3 or their children's growing up stage, not being able to be with them or see them grow up. many a times the kids are brought up by their maid or parent-in-law instead of being there themselves. but even more worst than that, the child grew up feeling empty within, lack of connection with their parents due to the parents commitment to work. like it a not the child will feel neglected / unloved despite it being a necessity on the part of their parent to feed them etc. what would be a better scenario? so my question to all parents out there is, are you resigned to your 'fate'? or your child's fate for that matter? are you telling me, "well, this is life... not like there other way out....". but what if there is a way out.. a way that will allow you be there and participate in yr child's growing up and own your life back... what would u do? would you grab it by the neck and do what's necessary to make it happen or would you be like a dog which sat on a nail, feel the pain and still sit there because the pain is still bearable? if you want to give life a shot instead of settling and wish there is a way, i m telling you there is. there are many ways out there if you look hard. but to save u the trouble, i found a way. my life is different now and it's getting better. my profile updates leaves some clues. pm me if you like to know what options there are or if you'd like to ask me anything. lastly, always remember this, you deserve to own your life. Don't ever settle for less. #iownmylife #littlebluesign #successleavesclues #ysbh 

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What are people saying about Worldventures and Dreamtrips

What others are saying about Worldventures and Dreamtrips. Click here to see.

Dreamtrips!!!

Please see below for Dreamtrips many of us have been on that freaking mind blowing!!!! #YSBH!!!! =) LIFE CHANGING, FUN & FUFILLING!! ;)

Boracay Island, Philippines Dreamtrip May 2013

http://vimeo.com/68197038


Phuket Dreamtrip 2012 
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4p_z9ToXbrM&feature=fvwrel 

Bali Salsa Weekend 2012 - My first Dreamtrip! 
http://youtu.be/Znpj_cRRCzM 

Koh Samui Dreamtrip 2012
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=essg6bNE26g

RMD trip 2012
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rw39qDmhz9A

For more examples of Dreamtrips, visit 

www.cheapestravel.dreamtripslife.com / click on shop for travels / see the types of trips we have on the books! All 4-5 Hotel stay with various itineraries at Dream prices... =)  

Cheers & Join us and Get Paid to travel around the world and never have to report to work again... #YSBH #DREAMLIFE #PAYCATION 

Becoming a Professional Networker - Randy Gage

This you have to see it ;) Very interesting haha.. While many people have mix view in this, Randy explains it simply and with utmost precision.

Greece here I come!!

See video here.

Crossroad

I am at the crossroad of my life now.

At this point in time i have to decide if i were to continue working in the office environment or to let loose and focus on network marketing and bit and pieces of side dish to earn the main bulk of my income. I pray to you lord to give me the vision and wisdom to make the right decision and the ability to follow my sixth sense.

Yesterday i was very blessed to be able to attend a Worldventures training by a Chinese radio DJ, Jeremiah Gee who decided to turn full time in Network Marketing with Worldventures. A totally inspirational teacher with lots of wisdom and experience in the networking industry... someone who has succeeded time after time in this massive industry that has helped changed the lives of many ordinary people, turning them into millionaires and living their dream, hitting highest rank on those companies he was involved in.

He shared why Network Marketing is the industry for everybody now. Why having a normal job now will not be able to sustain in today's economy. $1000 sgd per month just to pay for Kindergarden Education, 1 million dollar HDB flats, over priced cars, crazy inflation rates, Govt policies that do not benefit the citizens. The signs are obvious enough. Risky is the new safe. You cant stay in the system no more. What we've been taught, to study hard, get a good job, work for 40 hours a week for 40 hours of your time for 40 years and have no time for your family, your love ones just wont work anymore..

The 40-40-40 system is built by the rich to keep majority of the people in it poor so that the poor gets poorer and the rich gets richer. The only way not to be affected in a good or bad economy or to beat the system is through Network Marketing. The reason many people are struggling in the middle and lower class is because they have yet find out that this is their ticket out! Most people are not aware that we are born to be rich and that our destiny to discover that, and work towards fufilling that destiny.

The road to living our destiny to dare to head towards greatness which we are destined, we must first be aware that we have awakened and it is there or nothing. Yes there will be obstacles along the way. So long as you keep your vision close to you, you can make it. You will get there. It is unevitable and we must be ready to face what may come to shake your belief and your stride towards your ultimate purpose in life. Mean time we must bare in mind that our life's purpose is to help as many people get what they are destined for in their life. Our life's purpose lies in helping other get what they want and helping them succeed. As the saying goes, when you helped enough people get what they want, you get what you want.

Now that we know that Network Marketing is the 21st century revolution that will save countless people all over the world from poverty, the question is which company to choose right? Allow my mentor Jeremiah Gee, a local radio Dj to tell you more why Worldventures is the company and why we are in the right place at the right time to achieve our financial and time freedom at this stage of our lives.

Always do not work towards Success but work from Success.

You are already successful and you are telling others how, they too can be as successful as you are. That's your and everybody else's destiny. Each of you have a voice within you, a message to tell, a book within you waiting to be written by you.

Brian Tracy - 24 Techniques for Closing the Sale [Video]

I love this Guy... Just a sneak peak into the world of Sales here. Have you ever wonder why some people make so much money and are able to make sales when it seem like a challenging trade to be in? Here's a video by Brian who seem to make it seem easy. All it takes is a little practice and god knows, you could very well become someone you never knew you could become or only dream about.

Fact: One interesting fact many of you may not know? is that everybody sells! In our daily lives we sell from the moment we wake up till the moment we reach home. We sell our looks, the way we carry ourselves etc. You get what I mean.. But ultimately it's all about closing the sale!

Brian Tracy shows you 24ways how you can do it and have a great time =] .

Click here to see how it's done! :)

Do you believe in the Law of Attraction?

What do you know abt the law of attraction? Do you belief that your dominant thoughts come to pass just because you think about them more often than other things? For me, I belief in this Law. To me, it's the law that will determine what is to come in my life next. 

The interesting thing about it is that you never know when your life is going to change and how it is going to change? So long as you can imagine that life that you want, the car you be driving in, the friends you are going to have, the type of house you are going to be able to live in and how it looks like, and feel it like it is already happening every single day or minute of your life, it will happen it will come. 

Tell yourself how grateful you are to be able to live in that type of house (your dream house) that you are , living in, that you be able to afford it, i.e a penthouse. a BMW M Series car, red, with the leather padded seats, auto transmission with v engine etc. It will come to you and you will really be grateful that you can, Think and Grow Rich. 

Well the thing is, it will not just suddenly come with you sitting and waiting for things to happen. You gotta find that one platform that you belief with every single fiber of your being that, that thing you do will be able to help you realise your dreams and you will put in the necessary effort to get the results that you want. With the law of attraction, coz of your daily visualisation exercises, circumstances will be created in such a way that you be at the right place at the right time. If you were to ask me, I found it. I found the platform to which i can realise my dream and I thank God for that. My platform is Worldventures . The backend of my marketing website can be seen Here. 

If you ask me why this is a once in a lifetime chance to ever to be able to retire and why this chance will not come by ever again in a long time, it because it has already created a storm in US where it begun, then to Europe, opening up 20 over markets(countries) in all, they have just arrived here in Asia beginning right here in my Homeland, Singapore. We are the starting point to which this company will expand to all other parts of Asia. We being at the tip of the treasured land. That is the magnitude of things to come for us as the Pioneers n Leaders of this Tsunami that will sweep across the causeway, to Thailand, to Taiwan, Japan, Indonesia, Phillipines, Brunei, Burma, Laos etc. 5 to 10 years down the Road you will see the You Should Be Here Banner all over the place from people all over Asia. 

Having fun during Halloween at NLB Bugis

By 3 Singaporeans have retired because of this platform. They now vacation for free, have their house paid for, and car paid for. I am dreaming, I am trying and with the law of attraction and right mindset, attitude and visualisation, it's a matter of time. On my way there I wish to help as many people as I can to show them there is actually such a platform out there, and Yes they can dream. 

Use your thoughts to get you to where you want to be instead of against you as if you focus your thoughts on lack or negativity that too is what you are going to attract to your life. 

Love you guys and I wish you success in your Life. 

What are you committed to in your life today?

What are you committed to in your life today? Watching more tv? Playing games? Drinking out? Smoking? Staying stuck in the rut? Cheating? Or is it in growing, learning, developing yourself, becoming successful, or making yr life better? Everyday you commit yr life to something. If its not bringing you to where you want, change what you are committed to. 

Me? I am committed to living each moment of my life with zest and love. With aspiration for a brighter future. I am committed to becoming successful, happy, fulfilled & living the purpose of my life..... 

Vote for me!!!

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Thank you!!!!


My name is Jimmy and I'm wearing the orange T-Shirt!!! :D

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Toilet - Your best friend.

Shit! Yes it's that word we so very often use. Oh shit! etc.

Shit wad shit? Most people i see nowadays can't even shit! Ok, in a more layman term, shit, meaning moving the bowels. Yes, that means going to the TOILET to do your thing, by shaking it all out man... But there's problem. They don't come out! Atleast for many that i know. For me? Miine always, always come out nice and easy. Always. Trust me it feels damn good. WHy? coz i know how to do it right. I have secrets, secret methods tat will take you to the sky... ask me if u are desperate and really need to know how to get it all out. That's right, all out.... ask me. For $10 I will help you. No obligations.. only if u want to~ There's always the doctor~ =]

Apart from that, I have really seen so many people having shitting (constipation) problem. No, not that they are constipated people ok ? It's just that they cant shit & became full of shit! No intention to be crude here ok but it's the truth. I have people who look for me in Fb or come to me in person telling my about their shit. It's like they visit the damn toilet every 2-3 days to shit? Gosh that stinks really. you gotta belief me. It really stinks. I mean, i feel for them you get wad i mean? It's a horrible thing. It's a bloody nightmare... on average a healthy human being should move their bowels 2-3 times a day and maybe all the food taken the day before is cleared? These people are clearing half of a days food intake on a 2-3 days interval... Now these people are in deep shit. See the reasons why.

Do you know what is the implications of having a bad digestion for prolong period of time? Here are the common ones. :

1- Headache
2- Irritability - feel like fucking feeling. ok nvm.
3- Insomnia
4- Back pain
5- Ugly bulging tummy
6. 3ple tummy chin
7. Mood swiing
8- Ass pain when to shit but nothing comes out.
9. Vomitting
10. Cancer

It's that bad. These people are literally full of shit and whatever entails with it is, like what you can see, horrible. It has to be solved. If not. The predicted statistics of 1:3 Singaporeans will get cancer will become very possible. Now 3 in 5 people I know are suffering from constipation. So why this scary statistics? Very simply, our current diet and lifestyle. Junk food are so readily available etc. Ah sia kia eat buffet and luxurious food like nobody's business. With $ beer, drugs and cigarettes are easy to access too.

Other than some of my friends who atleast do exercise by practicing boxing or muaythai does that bit of exercise. Other's are too lazy to move their ass. The thing is if you want to at least have a normal health, you gotta exercise. If you want to learn boxing just to get your ass moving a little, can call me too. +65 91791209. Ex-National boxer with 15 experience on the ring. Known for my powerful punch despite my 'small' physique. ie. tall and not fat. Why exercising helps is because when you exercise your Qi flow in your body increases and is renewed. With more Qi, the life energy, the organs are able to self repair better and function more healthily. The Qi pushing downwards helps to improve bowel movements as well.

Anyways i have given advise to a few of my friends and they are seeing results. Personally I go to the toilet abt 2-3 times jus to make sure most are cleared etc. Else the entire day will feel very sian etc alrady.

Anyway it is impt to ensure our body is in a gd shape so that we can be n stay healthy to enjoy the beauty of life and it's every moment. Trust me u can feel it to the fullest or best, with an 'Empty' stomach . And if you are a business man or woman or simply and employee and feeding your family, it is even more important that you be in good health and always being the best in mood thus best in behavior or example for them. You perform well and people around love and are happy when you are around as you are always so positive.

As what people said, what is shown externally ie your behavior, is a reflection of what is your current state, internally. Healthy - Positive. Not healthy - Negative behaviors etc. mentally or physically.

Learn to eat proper, exercise often and love your toilet and lead the life you always deserved or dream about having.

I know it's very difficult for people to do the healthy lifestyle way to achieve the good digestive system.. but I have just the ways to go around it. no need to buy supplements, no need to watch your diet etc. and maybe even without exercise it can work. Just a few simple exercise that works that not many people know. Ask me and for a price you get it.

Questions? Drop me a comment below.
Text me: +65 91791209
Email me: bluemans_world@hotmail.com

Love and Peace Out.. ;)

Links and random resources:

Ebooks -
The Power of Now:
(Eng)  http://www.baytallaah.com/bookspdf/51.pdf
(Chinese) http://cheeseng.wikispaces.com/file/detail/The+Power+of+Now(chinese).pdf

The Greatest Networker in the World :
 http://www.tomshelpcenter.com/EBooks/tgnitw207[1].pdf

Conversation with e Greatest Networker in the World : http://thegreatestnetworker.org/Library/eBooks/CWTGNitW.pdf

The 4 Cornerstones of get Rich, Rich.
http://themastermindsessions.com/GRS4Cornerstones.pdf

Woman I want

Ofcoz i want woman. I am man. But what type???? lol... On that note you know today finally i am gonna share with you something a little more personal.... the type of woman I would like to have / would prefer to have.

Here are the criteria:

First of all she has to look like Jenifer lopez and maybe Britney spears? No wait those 2 are known to have baby fats all over as they have became lazy, plus the fact that age is catching up. No offense.. Ok Bella from twilight. Kristen Stewart. Yes someone like her will be good.

Someone with wide world view. Someone who has a big heart. Someone who is RICH? ha. Or atleast with a mindset that is liberal when comes to usage of money etc? Knowing for a fact that Money is important and is willing to be creative and willing to step out of the norm to go make somemore?

Woman, oh i love woman. They are certainly so tempting and, er..... distracting.

Will you be able to take my breath away?

KaBOOMz.....!! =D

Earn Money by Blogging ?

There are just so many ways to make money in this world!!! I realised, and I truely find it amazing when people say there are no jobs, or ways they can generate more money, or find one or two more sources of income~.

Maybe if you really is that someone who is looking for that additional source but is having problem finding one, come to me? The reason is I see so many and I am so excited about what the future will look like, With the number of choices out there that people can use as vehicles for a better financial as well as social security despite all the employment and inflation issues we are all facing at this 'dying' period of time.

What are the things we are hearing so very often now? All the hype about 6.9 million population in the year 2015. The influx of FT into our country etc. The government not doing not enough etc. The truth to the fact is that we don't have to be all affected by all that. The reason why some and even many are Borg down by all these factors is because there are dependent on the 'system'. Dependent on the government, dependent on their spouse etc... and the list goes on. There is always someone else who is responsible for the lousy state where you are now, everybody else other than US.

Yes, US! Why is it that we are not looking at ourselves? Why aren't we blaming ourselves for not doing enough or what's necessary to be at the financial situation that we desire to be in? The reason is that we have grown lazy, complacent and, pampered. Anyways, if we want a change for the better we've gotta change ourselves first. Start by becoming more proactive. That's the only way we can beat the system. Start looking for opportunities out there. After all POOR people simply means People Overlooking Opportunities Repeatedly!

Well then what are some options that are in the books that I discovered? Today I will share just two that I know of that has good potential.

1. Travel and Earn.
2. Blog and Earn.

What great Opportunity these two options offer? Both are things people are already doing daily or will definitely do anyway. How about getting paid while doing things that is an leisure activity or thing that we wont mind doing? It's amazing what people can think of to allow people get paid. The first option allows people to get paid to travel, earn cash in USD and also save on holiday trips. The second option is simply to blog and tell others they may continue to do that, but, on a different platform / system that will enable them to be paid.

See, the options out there are limitless. People are making $ they never dream possible when they open their mind up. Parachute operates best when it's open!

So you want to stick on doing the same old shit and get what you've been getting or you want to try a crazy new shit that will give you a different outcome. The choice is yours. Mate, the clock is ticking as you remain undecided.

To a better and more fufilling life.

Cheers.

Purpose, Goals and Dreams

Purpose.
Of late I have been sharing things which are not necessarily about me and more of general subjects. I am doing that just to share with as many people about my world view as well as things I feel will be beneficial, or even entertaining to read / know. It is indeed true that I love to entertain people. And if they like it, it's a BIG bonus for me =). Just like when I box in the ring, be it I win or loss I want to know that the crowd was well entertained and had a good time seeing me get punched as well as me punching the hell outta my opponent, which is usually the case, thankfully. =P. And so today it will be something that is somewhat in the middle of it all. Half general and half about myself. Well it is coming out directly from me so it's got to do with me doesnt it. ha.

Goals.
How many of you have goals and dreams? How many of you know what goals and dreams in life you have? Or, you don't have goals and dreams at all and you think it's perfectly fine not to have any? Well there is no right or wrong answer here but, I will share with you what I think about them and why it is good to have them.

Truth: We are not destined to live a peasant life, or a normal life, or an average life or a normal life. We are destined for greatness. We are destined to walk through life knowing what is our purpose here. We are destined to become something, somebody here, something big, something significant and the interesting part is, deep down inside we all know it.We all want it. It's our destiny after all...

How many people actually do realize about the above truth I just spoke about? Not many. They know it but they don't know it. Are you with me? The truth is you cant escape that. It will always be calling out to you one way or the other, to do what you are suppose to do, until you finally do it, do something about it until the day you cease to breath. It's YOU! Yes YOU! it's totally up to you to answer the call / your calling.

Some people heard the call or that little voice in them to act on their destiny to make their life great like it's really meant to be but for some reason chose to cover their ears or put on a muffler, pretending not to hear anything. Deep down these people live on with a feeling of guilt and eventually a great sense of regret and pain in their soul, for when at their death bed, they knew they avoided precisely what they needed to do and can do, but didn't. That's right. They knew they have wasted their precious life. They have wasted their time, and the chance to live their life the way it should be lived. Challenging yet fun. So, are you going to be one of them? Or would you choose to live your life like it's a great adventure and big playground, have so much fun along the way, learning, falling, getting up etc, growing and making progress and have a purpose in life?

2 things you do will change your life.

1) The DECISION you make and 2) the ACTIONS that you take.

Nothing happens until you decide and then take the necessary actions towards what you want to attain or achieve. Remind yourself constantly what was the decision you made and what you really want so that you stay in the course. The bigger your goal or dream it is, the bigger the obstacles that will come your way. The obstacles are there to test you, to see how serious you are about what you made up your mind to do. As it turns out, people give up on their goals and / or dreams along the way because the met up with set backs or small road blocks. They allowed those obstacles to become stopping stones instead of stepping stones =). That I do find it amusing sometimes hahaha.. the only way through is through my friends. I know what you are gonna go through. Every I know and see who has dreams go through what you are gonna go through. My friend's aunt said this. "The only way through, is though. Just stay in the course and you will get through it." I thought that was quite inspirational. That I have to give credit to my friend, Wayne Nugent for sharing. Thanks Wayne! To achieve and eventually make it, be constantly taking action. Small and big. Just do not stop until you get there.

So are you ready to make the decision that will and MOST DEFINITELY change your life forever? Are you then willing to take the necessary actions to MAKE IT HAPPEN?

Do you want to know why some people are always happy or seem to be happy? The answer is because they are constantly making PROGRESS. Could be a small progress or a big progress it doesn't matter. Where there is progress you get a fulfilled or happy being. So how do we ensure constant progress? Well, very simply by taking constant action of course.

How do we make staying in the course much more easily since it's going to be challenging?

1. Start to LOVE what you need to do and what you do. Love what you do and it won't seem like work anymore. You will be doing it because you want to and not because you need to. Ain't that much more favorable?

2. Have the end result you want at the back of your head. Believe you are already where you want to be. How would you feel when you are living in the house of your desire? How would you feel when you are already Driving the car of your desire? See it in your mind's eye everyday. It will come true.

3. Why do you need to make it? What's your BIG WHY? Because you are sick and tired of the struggling life you have being living? Because you hate the fact that you have to scrimp and save just to get somethings done? Because you want to help others and only with financial power that you are able to reach out at a larger scale? What ever reason you may have, FIND IT. Your reason will be one of the driving force to help you get through anything and help you get there. Just don't ever forget your why.

WHAT'S NEXT?
Find the platform that will help you get there & don't stop till you get there.

Ok let's get go somewhere a little lighter. Let me ask you a few questions. Have you ever set goals or make new year's resolution but didnt achieve them? You want to know why? You set them for the sake of setting them. You set them with the mindset that, "nah it's just going to be another goal i set that i will not able able to achieve....". and so that's what it is. Next year they will be setting the same goal again! and never achieve it. So what's missing? Your Believe. Set goal(s) and believe you are going to attain it & you will.

Take care and my wish is that you achieve your goals and dreams in your life as that's what you are destined for. NEVER accept anything smaller than that in your Amazing life.

The Power of Now Principle

Hi people !

Today i am gonna share a little bit philisophical ie. spiritual subject with you guys. If there is any reading my posts that is =X .

Anyhow I once came across this book called The Power of Now by this author by the name of Eckhart Tolle. I saw this book when I was visiting my friend at his place while browsing through what books he had on his collection on his table.

Somehow i took up the book and begun browsing through.... it was like the book was calling out to me. Could be my imagination i dunno. ha. But ya the title caught my attention a little as it kinda linked to a book i read a few years before that, Zen O'clock by Scott Shaw. Zen O'clock is a very small book that discussed things like the present moment and listening to our hearts which I find very insightful. It was my first book i ever purchased from bookstores other then school textbooks for my school education too.

 I thought the Power of Now will be a good add on to my knowledge bank as well as enlighten me on things i do not know that i do not know, as well as things i should know in order to live my life with clearer purpose. So I asked if i could borrow it from my friend for a couple of weeks and he agreed.

The Power of Now covered somewhat topics like what is the meaning of life, what is our purpose here on earth etc. to things about understanding our mind that is not us, not the true self living within us. That if the mind goes on un-watched, could very well and have since jeopadized the lives of many who did not or have not discovered this important knowledge.

I shall jump right in to share with you a portion of what I learnt from the book / the author. I do hope you find it interesting and maybe go download the free e-book that can be found by clicking on the links i provided below.

Some principles I learnt or understood.....

1) Our mind and our true self are 2 separate entities. Many have this misconception that we are actually our Mind! Do not be fooled by the Mind. It wants you to think that it is you and you are it. Ok so how do you recognize what thoughts that comes to you is the true you or by your mind? The key take away here is not to think of your mind as an enermy but to know how to make it work for you, instead of against you. See the key characteristics of the Mind below:

- He judges. ie. John is fat. Peter is stout. Simple things as such. Passing of judgement, be it good or bad ones. That include things like judging ourselves etc.. Very much of these are on a subconcious level.

- He loves to create drama in our lives. Instead of walking safely down the stairway, it may make you fall off it to reach ground level instead? How abt a love triangle =] such are the works of the mind that has successfully controlled us or others to create dramas in our lives etc.

- He loves to compare. ie. He is richer than me... I am much better looking. She is so much more sexier than me. How does it make you feel when you compare? That's what your mind loves to do. So are you in charge or is he incharge..

-  He likes to project into the past or the future but never on the Present. How do you usually feel when you think about an past event? Or something that has yet happen that might not happened? Is it usually positive or negative? What happen when you use your present moment to relive and feel what you felt in the past or something that has yet happened? very simply, your present moment that is the forever of Now, the only moment that you truely know you are alive and exist to experience the new n freshness of what is, is taken away because of what you allow your mind to make you think the way it thinks.

- He holds internal conversations in your head. See people walking out there screaming at the top of their voice and talking as if there is really someone there? It's simply a severe case of an external projection of what goes inside the head. Those 'people' we term as 'lost their mind'. It's more of the other way round whereby their mind have fully taken control of them. As such these people are like zombies, living dead.

- The Mind thinks endlessly. Have you ever wished you can stop thinking sometimes but didnt know how to? It's not you. It's the mind and how it works. The way to stop it, just be aware and concious that it is not you. Detach yourself from the identification with the mind and you will be free. When you do that, your precious present moment is returned back to you. Not only can u breath with great relieve, u conserve energy for the long run.

- Lastly the Mind thinks about negative things 60% of the time.

The real / true you, is always at peace, and fully present. When you are constantly in the Now / the present moment you experience true lasting Joy, Peace and Love. There will no longer be a need to have this or that (attachements) in order to feel gratified. Ie. cravings like sex, choc , meat, lust or ice cream. The cause of pain in life is attachment. For example what happens when someone throw away a diamond ring that your bf gave you? Because of identification with the ring that it is part of us or belong to us, creates emotional baggage. Something like a false sense of security or happiness.

We must accept that nothing lasts forever. You and I don't last forever. Everything is as temporary as life. One moment you are happy and the next, in deep anguish or sadness. But eventually it will come to pass. One fleeting moment will come after the next until you begin to live in the present moment.

Acceptance sets you free. Begin accepting things for the way it is, in it's perfect inperfectness and thou shall be set free and feel light as a feather...

Peace...

About being in Business

Have any of you thought about becoming a businessmen or businesswomen some day? If your answer is anything from a resounding YES! to a Maybe? or I dunno? continue to read anyway.

Do you know what is a must have, such that you even stand a chance to succeed in any business venture that you step into? Here are a few very important things that you need to know.

1. You MUST have integrity. Integrity simply means, doing what you say you will do .
2. You must take good care of your body. For without good health, you wont have the energy to make a follow up call, go warm your market or even get up to kick start the day in the right direction by getting out of your bed. Without good health, success is impossible.
       Simple tips to be in the pink of health.
         1. Carry weights for about 30 mins a day.
         2. Eat organic food as often as possible.
3. No T.V or reading of News. What's the first thing you see in the headlines? An accident, disaster or rape etc? How often do you find good news reported? Hardly. The last thing we need is pollution of uncessary thoughts into our system. It's a waste of time too btw. Unless you think or feel it can get you nearer to achieving your goals.
4. Adopt the attitude of KAIZEN. Learn ceaselessly. Very simply because we don't know what we don't know. Learn new things, anything. One derive satisfaction from ones own progress.
5. Whatever you feel, remember to always get up dress up and show up. For it is those who constantly apply such principle and constantly show up that make the cut.
6. Belief (Love) what you do.
7. Celebrate other's successes. By mocking at others successes send your subconcious mind a sublimal message that success = no good. So don't ever create a self conflicting environment within yourself that will hinder your progress towards your ultimate goal of becoming a successful individual / biz person etc.
8. Be grateful. This one is so important. For it is with this emotion that people attract abundance into their lives. What you get in your life is what you have given attention to. So if you focus on LACK, good luck my friend, more of that is coming your way.
9. Celebrate milestones. Coz if you dont, forget about achieving the next and the next and the next milestone.


It is not all but i belief these few will be sufficient for a start if you are a budding entreprenuer or one to be. For those who are already practicing these principles i hope it will serve as a reminder for you.

I shall leave you with a quote from Zig Ziglar I stumbled upon recently that I like so...... very.... much.

"Let it not be a stopping stone, but a stepping stone."

Keep going as we are destined to walk on earth as Kings and Queens and not just as a average human being in our stay here!

Cheers!

2013 - What is to come and in the pipeline

Wow i have been absent from the blog for almost a good 2 years. Well now i am back ! Thanks to Ms Jingles (Jing Na) in ma office. A colleague whom i chat with via communicator once in a very often moon. We have things in common. really. Like, we talk to ourselves sometimes 0_o.

Havent been attending regular boxing training for about a year ++ due to many many factors... Still, i will meet up with some friends like Zach, Edgar, another french guy or my morrocan friend to do skipping, hit the pads or do some sparring. Fun when i come out of it tops ha..

well another things that i am working on that kinda like i am not suppose to, as i work in the ministry is something related to travel. this is wad is spend quite a bit of time in now and thus my setting aside of other things etc. Learnt alot and made some too. not sure if i should be put it here even but yeah . Here goes nothing! But I will post it only in my next blog =P

Name change. My name is officially changed from Jimmy Quek Jian Tai to Jimmy Peh Yong Jun. Peh because my father's father, when entering Spore had a mixed up and came into the country as Quek instead of Peh. and so we took the wrong surname till my generation until my dad decided it's time to ren zhu qui zong that we begin to one by one change back to our original surname. How abt my name then, to yong jun. Here's the reason. very simply coz kids or even friends and family members would make fun of me by reversing my name etc. which will make it sound like a guy without dick ... u know... it gets irritating but u cant do much? Change it =p. Nontheless I hope for a change in luck. For things to be smoother etc. So far so good man.

First Aider.
Next week i am gonna be away from OFFICE! As i will be going for Occupational First Aid Course at St. John. Start late end early how ideal ryt? ha. So if you happen to be out of breath, call me. Only gurls need apply. =x Hotline : +65 91791209 . First come first serve!

End of da day.
At the end of the day i have dreams and aspirations, and my dreams and aspiration is definitely not to work for 40 hours a week for 40 years of my life like everybody else. I want to breakfree! Remember that oldie? =] Ok i am hungry now.............. time fer lunchie........

Byez....

My New Helmet :)

Let's get ready to ride~ btw, my spectacle gets in the way when I m wearing e damn helmet... -.-

Present wish list

jus for the fun of it , i wonder at times what i would like for presents... these thoughts suddenly came to my mind so i decide i should record it down =)

toys? bruce lee merchandise? i suppose they will make good birthday presents to me =) fight videos, books and any other martial arts reference materials would be good as well? how abt a help to solve my knuckle problem? =) gosh... that would really be great.

sponsor my laser eye surgery so i dun have to wear specs anymore ? tat's all for now folks ....

I am back~

Wow it's been ages since i last blog i almost forgot one such thing ever existed.

once again i update my revealable stories or information regarding myself and new things i learned or would like to share here in Climax Zone. To be exact, the climaxes as well as anti climaxes...

ok now for a few key words to begin with. moM, family , activities , health , wants , marTial Arts , injury , rehab , massage .. Friends......... , wad else... girls? =X ok ignore the last one. pS, it's private and confidential . Progress? =] Ah! Movies.. One of my favorite past time.. People in my life .. International news , bruce leE, JOhn Lam, Tkd , Alvin fitness , u2Can , Cyclists, zhYrahh, riS , grandma , MuSic, Singing , DJ Teisto , Justin BieBer, Eminem, Love the way u lie. Baby baby... Rodora, honey, Avril , Table soccer... sWimming... kicKing inc. aRt . Insurance. Lottery . nick . Bro. Treat. Cineleisure desert caFe. Ginger A Boling. $2.00 . Flu.. Accupoints .. Damaged watch strap. Soviet Titus. Gift . Children . Tv . Ying Jun Min.... Sad.. TOuching... Ai.. Ailing.. Birthday present , bugis , sunShine plaZa, Nu Bra, Inflamation , Ointment ,

ok let's begin with movIes
I watched.. Takers , Going to watch Life the way it is .. so looking forward to it man.... Buried seem like a good show to catch. It's a show starring a guy waking up in a coffin down under and how he tries to get out of living 'hell' .

Health
My knuckles still not ok... how to get it totally treated??????? no ok means no punching... means no fighting.. damN! Even then i can train my legs. mT , tkD ? Evolve ? I have been having 'free' lessons at Evolve, well, by being cyclops ofcoz =] Trust me, tat's definitely a cheaper way of learning. Today i have been feeling niggles on my right wrist.. man this aint good news... Horse stance , 15mins. Kordel's JOint Aid + MSM. 2- 3 capsules a day.

Man oh man i seem to like to write randomly on wadever that comes to my mind, tot by tot without proper sentence structure... sounds like tweeter eh ? haven tried that though... wad e diff between that and posting posts on fb? wad e hack.

Cyber bullying.. gosh that sucks... people harming people like tis?

Pilates.. lessons coming soon [every tuesdays] or go running with lenny and kenny]

afternoon runs. dancing. clubbing . orchard tower. precious.

Wednesday [20th Oct 2010] 4Km iRun , some special event that should have shirt.

Wency going to learn Korean language.. how cool is that..

Hair cut ... after next sunday? cynan...

Accounting .... $$ savings..

I just bought a new Hospitalization insurance from an Great Eastern Life Agent by the name of Walter. Nice guy. and that cost me abt 380 per annum? have the deduction been madE? gotTa check my bank man...

Western Union... $5.00 processing fee. $10 0 ? woo.. coming back ? not sure. never try never know =x

Trying to learn Cantonese.. wency recommend french too =] man do i haf so much money to spare?! let's go slow on this yea?

Education - upgrade.. yes, no ? Gosh tis is another up there in my head... Yes, no.. $$ yes no... sis is studying now at MDIS... i could get the notes from her? how should i den be planning my finances ?

I want to go for lasik surgery too baby... avg cost is abt $3500 ++. have to put eye drop for 1 mth non stop.. Jacqueline did it~! done and over with it...

oh yea i just pumped my bmx bicycle today ... it's going smooth again =]

skcape is a good place to chill sometimes. ..

Gotta pay Bashir for the sparring head guard and handwraps .. gotta catch up with this buddy more often man... good boxing training partner..

woo . lights out for now... eyes are feeling heavy now =) writing course.. dynamic writing... black man told me abt toastmasters... speaking skills... ok randoming again xD

.. cYa LateR aLigaToR...

Mr Potato

I cooked mashed Potato today!!! 

It was during this company event that I got a chance to do my own cooking~! So cool.... I kinda like the feeling of preparing my own meal! Can you imagine that? A good husband who can cook and provide for his family? =] Is this the type of guy you girls would yearn to have? ;) ha. 

Anyway this event that I attended is called CPE (Corporate Planning Exercise). In this CPE we would be discussing about how we did and what we are to expect in the near future in our work. Oh yes, I also received an award titled the 'Minister for Manpower Award' together with many of the EPOL team colleagues for contributing in the development of the new EPOL system. Pretty cool aint it =] You bet. 

During the whole of today's event I also got the chance to go up ('to the stage') to 'present' twice. The first time being, after the first dish we create, we have to tell the people present what it meant and why we named it the way we named it. And the name of our Vietnam Spring roll dish is Mei Qui (Rose). I described each petal, made of spring roll as each of the team member who contributed in making the dish, forming the beautiful flower, growing and working together as one beautiful entity in achieving our goals. 

The next time i went up to speak is when we were to draw an image to represent each of the alphabet in the word C.A.R.E. C = Competent, A = Accessible, R = Responsive, E = Effective. As a team, we came out with ideas on what image we would like to draw to represent each of the alphabet. In the end, for C, we drew President Obama, A, I drew Toilet paper, R = my colleague Peggy drew Badminton Racket and shuttle cock, and E, I drew the Superman logo. Fun sums it all up~ 

Boxing

Training has been great although it has taken it's toll on me, well, atleast a little. I have been training for almost every other day other than my actual classes on Monday and Wednesday. I'd do stretching for an hour plus, else it would be gym or run to become stronger. 

All this commitment i put into my training does pay off though. Just yesterday, I had a valuable lesson from my coaches, especially coach Sri on sharing of some of his secret techniques and footwork. During sparring I fared well and lasted 3 sparring partners, coming on top before ending my sparring session. I also had sparring on Monday. Taking and giving punches become part and parcel of my training but I am happy. As long as I know I am improving every single day/second I am happy. 

On the 14 I shall aim for a Victory to repay what my coaches had done to help me develop as a boxer. 

Signed up for mioHome plan with Singtel

Yesterday, by right going ktv with colleagues but somehow as if an epidemic broke out 4 out of 7 people fall sick?! can u imagine how miracle happen in our daily lives? it's really so amazing! *says grace* amen. nevertheless i still managed to catch a movie with nida at Century square in Tampines! I watched The story of Benjamin Button :) a 2hr 45min show which is okok bah. it was a story telling type of show with lots of flashbacks etc.

we had abt 1hr 30min before the show start so we decided to walk around abit first.. nida suggested we go singtel shop as she wanted to check if there are any deals available and so we went. in the end i was the one who went home with a great deal hee :)

I took up the mioHome 'internet' plan. on the last day of its CNY promotion. am i lucky or wad.

This plan basically bundles the LAN Line, internet broadband and Cable TV together as a package.

so, wads so good abt it? first of all i had the chance to lower down the subscription charges for my internet bills from abt $80.00 a mth to just $60.00 a month? a hefty of $20.00 savings per month! on top of that i get mioTV channels free for 1 yr, for my parents viewing pleasure only ofcoz haha coz i dun watch tv. One minus point is that I have to pay for the hse phone LAN line. My father happy until dunno like wad only coz I 'volunteered' to pay for the hse line... wandarfool ah... :p It charges only for usage in terms of outgoing calls? Hopefully i wont have to end up paying more at the end of the day. anyway it's a 30 month contract. 0.o

Visit to 2 Chinese doctors
The first one is at BLK 7 Haig Road #21-441 Spore 430007
This chinese doctor specializes in treating bone and joint problems but especially good in treating spine and shoulder problems. So just today i went to him to have my shoulder treated from injuries sustained during and after my last competition.

Bill was $70.00 for tat visit.

I then went to the next chinese TCM clinic(Quan Qi Tao) at Bedok North st 2 that is near my ah ma hse, abt 6mins walk, to have my wrists treated. tat visit cost me $40.00 ++ wonderful right? waliew... Really is 'He Ping de dai jia' sia... I even have to borrowed $22.00 from Alan, the chinese doctor friend there. -_- have to return him once I get my pay.

National selection News: Boxing
I received a call this morning while i was still at the first clinic from my boxing coach who told me that I was one of the Boxers selected to represent SABA (Singapore Amatuer Boxing Association) in boxing. With that, every Sat there will be an additional training from 4-6pm starting from today, which i didnt and couldnt go. That was that. Good news I suppose.

Verna and Sheena's Bdae Chalet at Pasir Ris aloha resort tmr, 8th Feb 09 Sunday 6pm
The twin sisters who were my school mates during my secondary school years. They have invited old seconadary school classmates. Those that i liked and those that I did not. Some reunion it is going to be, something which I didnt know would even happen as I was kinda the 'Zone-Out' kid back then. As long as I have enough bus fare to come home!! Dunno dun bring present there ok anot worz.... coz I already having deficit in my bank account le....

Cai Shen Ye!!! Throw money to me BA!!!!!!! =) pENs oFFa.

The PA

Yes, PA. I need a PA (Personal Assistant).
*See end of entry for the reason for hire

Criterias to qualify as my personal assistant

-You need to have sufficient spare time to do planning for me
-Preferable one of the opposite gender
-Is interested in what i do (Boxing),
-Have the interest of getting into a life of a person/Boxer (what happens, what goes on in one's life, way of thinking)
-Want to gain a valueable experience for a stipulated period of time.
-Enjoy free meals during planning sessions
-Serious (professional in dealing) and meticulous (have an eye for details)
-Dun mind info searching when required.
-Enjoy flexible arrangements
-Would like to earn some spare cash (Enough to cover meals and transportation: negotiable).

Bonus criteria:
-it will be a bonus if you enjoy photography/videography

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If you have atleast 10 of the above stated criterias, U are the one i am looking for =]
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Jobscope:
-Plan out my schedule, be it training to hse visiting.
-Learn about my training objective and goals (Data will be given)
-Ensure that I follow through so that I achieve or move towards the objective in the most productive possible route.
-Have to keep track of my schedules
-Have to literally learn everything abt me (u are lucky! :p)
-Must have information on finger tip for easy retrieval of data I may need
-Help make appointments (If necessary)
-Carry things occassionally (during shopping sessions)
-Enjoy free meals
-Have a storage device to store impt information (Note book electronic etc.)


Benefits (What's in it for you?)
-You haf a Biography in your hand/ of your very own
-You will be rewarded on top of the mentioned remunerations (salary, free meals etc.) should things go well and objectives acheived.
-You will gain new perspective of life
-You get a chance to a semi-boss to someone else (sometimes you will be incharge)
-You can see the fruit of your labour and the chance to see yourself make things happen.
-It's less than a year (Extension is negotiable)
-Life skill is obtained. (Next time, u know how to plan for yr spouse of child, if any.)
-It's challenging
.........................................................................................................................

POSITION IS NOW OPEN FOR INTERVIEW:
If you are the person that fit the bill, you will be selected.

Interested party may email to me directly at : bluemans_world@hotmail.com
Do include a short introduction of yourself, why you like to apply for this experience and why you should be selected. Keep in mind should there be a high number of applicants u may be asked to come for an interview. ;) Do enclose a picture of yourself too. Cheers~!

Time is a constraint, it has to be quick. So, act now.

*Reason for hire
I thought I should explain my reason on why I derived having a PA would be impt.
-I have alot of thought unsorted, which needs to be sorted with an assistant
-To facilitate faster decision making, thus making most of my time effectively, productively.
-To achieve my set goals in a stipulated amt of time with complete assistance and watchful eyes to ensure things are done according to plan,
-I have a timeline /dateline to meet
-A PA will be able to make constructive views to my views i already have of the world

CNY

Woo .. i mean Moo... This Moo year ah, sibei boring sia.... so wad did i do during this fantastic festive few days? Bai nian with my parents before they left for genting, took the 'rewards' :p, went to bai nian with my grandma, took ang bao from whoever i saw then go home ha. I did have dinner at my grandma hse too la on both the eve and Chu Yi... so yummy... ok now i am feeling hungry.... a few hours later i got to go back to work liao... sure holiday mood one.... may have to try keep my eyes open too O_o .

it's not all that bad though... i still managed to bring myself to take shower, iron my clothings for the next two days and do the dishes~ ! *pats my own back* :p er, but haven wash my clothings oops. : p *guilty*

other than that, i also managed to bring myself out of my laptop (literally) and den out of my room to go downstairs to buy macdonald for dinner tonight.... so admirable right? then there is the studying in australia reseach which i used the entire of this Tuesday but still haven finish with my fact finding. What i found out is that the course fee cost 3-4 times more expensive than studying in singapore. That is not inclusive of the daily living expenses so can u imagine.. let's see wad happens in the end.

if there is anything stopping me, it will be money and my interest.... Pens Offfffff ;)

Evolve MMA

Today Nickolas and I went to Evolve MMA (Mix Martial Arts Gym). I saw the gym with all the type of Coaches I would like to have to guide me in the Martial arts path. It was really a relieve, literally, to be able to see these people can be seen in the Singapore Martial Arts Fraternity.

Nickcolas and I were suppose to go for the MMA half an hour trial class but instead we were only able to sit and observe a Muaythai class which started at 2.30pm. Why? Firstly, we were late, very late. But why were we late? Very simply we could not find the place which was so well hidden -_- Nevertheless the Muaythai class was nothing short of inspiring for me. There were about 4 Thai coaches and 1 ex-Contender Asia fighter there to guide the 'students' who have paid a hefty of what is believed to be $235 per month for unlimited training. That, is a big sum for mid income earners like myself you know.

One thing abt the instructors there. They are all highly qualified trainers there. One early 40 coach is super particular on the correct execution of techniques. He is simply the type of coach I have been looking for, the type of coach who can perfect my technique and form for optimum performance. Just by oberving for an hour I learnt the correct technique for a lead punch, cross, elbow strike, muaythai roundhorse kick and the speed of movement while 'bouncing' to the muaythai music rythm for better balance and poise. For eg. if one moves or bounce too fast, he/she will tend to loss balance much more easily.

Beautiful.

Thereafter, I headed to orchard to meet ris. Had a great time at little india , den at PS to watch the Jack Neo film. And yeah, we had our lunch cum dinner at Thai Express. The food was good !! Yummy!! and the best part? Ris paid for it =x it cost $29.00 ++, after 10% discount from a member card a friend of hers' gave her. She ordered Beef kway teow noodles while I ordered Yellow curry with chicken and potato! to top it up, we ordered the ever delicious, crispy Kai lan and mushroom side dish... I love it!!

Yesterday. Kevin Bro.
After work I jio-ed Kevin out to catch up after our so long no contact etc. He and I caught the show 'InkHeart'. Entertaining show ba :) before that we ate dinner at Shokuho at CineLeisure. I ordered Oyster in Tomato sauce pasta while he ordered Mango smoothie and Cheezy Potato curry pizza. This time I was the one who treated. The meal cost me $37.00 -_- a heavy investment indeed, considering I have only $47.00 left in the bank before deduction. Gosh , sacrifice ha. Kev paid for the movie tickets though so yeah in that sense it aint that bad~~!

After the show we headed opposite Cineleisure at the Youth park there to drink and chat... Towards the end I got sit on his bike as he sent me home in his new Bike, a Phantom, harley davidson type of bike. He riding skills, super good. I was back home in like 15mins from Orchard to Hougang. See you soon bro.

Traveling season?
Nickcolas my young buddy cum MMA fighter is set to leave Singapore sometime next week to go overseas to study for one year. My elder bro had left for China for holiday on thursday, so have my younger sister, to HongKong? -_- next is my parents who would be siaming new year by going to Genting tmr. Whatever it is I wish them a good journey with lotsa fun =)

Happy Chinese New Year Folks~! Sorry no pictures again~! Haha...

2nd Rated Year or Month ? (for that matter)

So far for the month of January. It's been second all the way haha... 2nd in boxing competition, silver (considered 2nd) in ippt (similar to napfa/army physical fitness test). Is this a second rated season or wad haha... I wont allow it to continue, that's for sure. I never belief in settling for second best.

So, let's continue to strive and get to the top and embrace the moment. It's possible, just a matter of time. My goal, therefore is to be first rated from Febuary onwards. The perfect time for transition, just after Chinese New Year ofcoz ha.

Hmmm so many things are going on... $ is running down pretty fast... after paying my $368.00 Internet + Hp bills for December and January my pocket is like torn open by a rapist -_-.... I have like less than $100 bucks ? Oh gosh how am I going to pull through this few other weeks before the next pay day~!? God knows.

Hey! maybe the angbao money can help a little? good point there =p. Help will always be there, solutions always surface when the need arise. Blessed I am. Thank God. Abundance would be fabulous.

Studying Abroad
This subject has recently cross my mind. Infact it was highlighted to me by Jody =]. She convinced me? =] Now that I have sort of set my mind on doing that, I need to think about alot of things too. Things like the money factor, the legal factor, the recognition factor, the approval factor. Nevertheless the key focus is still the money factor whereby I need to think how I can churn out the money for the school fees and daily expenses for my time there. Btw, I am considering Studying Sports Science in Mordoch University in Western Australia if I am not wrong ? ha.. The term will start in Feb 2010. As far as I know the school is recognise here and so is the course I would like to take if I do take. Lotsa reseach will be underway~ Thanks Jo, for giving me the idea. I belief I will have an conclusion soon if my interest dun eventually take preceeding importance to education and experience on a foreign land with lots of exciting possibilities.

In life it's always good to have things to look forward to. Who knows the Govt payout in March will make my decision making alot easier ? duh..........

CNY
My parents are siaming CNY ! ha. They will be going overseas leaving me all alone at home! So who wanna spend the CNY with me??? ha. Advance notice please!! Havoc time! If it happens ha. Btw I have yet to do my new year shopping? On the hind sight, my parents and siblings have bought me new clothings for my Birthday which falls on the 15 Jan.

As for Boxing / Martial arts this is the area which I am solely concerned and take key priority in. How far can I go. When will I leave boxing to develop further as a martial artist? Do I have what it takes , the decipline to follow through? This we will discuss soon....

A great new beginning shall come ;) Dreams fufilled and Wars conquered, we pray.

xxxxxxx

17th Jan 2008 - Saturday

In the morning I went to see Nathalie off at the airport together with several of her blogger friends she got to know in Singapore, in her 4 month stint here. She will be going back to Kota Kinderbreano until the end of the month (January 09) for the chinese new year season. Hse visiting and ang bao collection all the plans.

So the 5 of us gathered. It was me, her and 3 other guys i never seen before ha. Nevertheless we broke the ice quickly and soon chatted like we knew each other since a long long time ago... It was fun, we had lunch, chatted and laughed, to the point i find it rather entertaining.

Then it was the fairwell. Goodbye~! Singapore and Hello~ Malaysia~! as what Nathalie puts it =] before boarding, Brennon and I approached 3 chio bu from Silkair to help us take a grp photo to capture the brief moment we had together. It was the evidence which we could never go back to capture the time we had there. Goodbye and see u soon Nathalie~ =)

After Nat left we went our separate ways. I headed for granny 's place while the rest headed to meet their other friends. anyway of the 3 guys, 2 are in the army and one is going to the army soon. Ofwhich one is a regular in the army. Army man!

Later in the evening I met up with rick to catch a feature film, 'The Carrot cake conversations' by a local film maker, Michael Wang if I am not wrong. It was a dialogue type of show which i belief the usual movie goers would not be able to phamtom the essense or meaning to which the director wishes to potray. Why so? It was due to the wittiness of chim jokes that was funny and that 'I' understood (Thank goodness) that made it a film that was acceptable to me, which I found entertainment value in. My investment of $8.00 on a local made film was worth the money.

Once again sorry, I did not take any pictures so nothing to see.

After the show, Rick and I headed to Cineleisure, ate at Shotoku Japanese Pasta and Pizza before boarding NR 6 and headed for home. He had Valina ice cream waffle while I had Beef Belonaise with an egg. Again, no pictures, sorry. Nevertheless, it was a meal that was value for money as the two we ordered only cost us a minimal of $22.00 + . Affordable? Yes.

That was that. I took a shower and it was then sweet dreams and good nite.

Gloves, pens and keyboard offa....

Third Boxing competition

It was close, a little disappointing but a good result. That's all I can comment about my Boxing Championship 2009. I won the first match but lost in the finals. Better luck and state next time~ Now it's time to work on the recovery of my wrist in preparation for my next fight in April =]

But anyway if you are curious why I did not take the match in the finals, I would say it's due to the fact that I did not warm up enough before I stepped into the ring. Nevertheless I made it a close match for my opponent who was a gentleman at the end of the battle. I suppose he felt for me too as he fought one less match prior to our fight. No excuses though. It was a gentleman's fight for glory. This time, he got it and I have to concede to that fact.

During the match, exhaustion seeped in almost too quickly, too quickly for my comfort.. i was losing my breath quick. I was prancing around while his supporters shouted in malay to him that i am already tired and was pleading him to dash and kill the game. It created some level of stress for me too, in the process causing me to lose concentration too. My muscles were also not listening to me as they felt sore and heavy when i needed them to be supple and flexible.. Towards the end somehow I still wished that my hand was the one raised to be crowned the champion for 2009. It didnt happen but that was how close i was. :)

I am like people as Winston Churchill, Thomas Edison and even Eeinstien. If it's going to take a few defeats before i become the Champion I truely desire, I will walk through them and Eventually, Emerge Victorious.

Gloves Off =P ....

ok i mean, pens off xp

Weekend Thus Far

I have been having lotsa fun these few days with the people that i am lucky to have around me. They are the likes of Peishi, Joanne, Daphne, Shiyu, Nick, Michael, Ruth etc..

Eg just now, we just had WPAS CPE (cORporaTe PlaNniNg ExeRciSe). We gathered at Sandor's condo, had discussion abt work and played games as well as had sumptious breakfast plus lunch.

So this was how it went... in the morning i took a cab to Jalan Kayu and Joanne picked me up with her Lexus and drove to Lot1 to pick some other colleagues before heading to our final destination. At the end of it she also sent me to Somerset.

During the time at Sandor's condo we played wii and Junga the 'brick' game. Those games really brought us lotsa laughter and fun... the atmosphere was pretty relax and cool... i have learnt to relax while being with my colleagues.

Apart from work, Daphne and I went out again yesterday. We catched The day earth stood still together at Cineleisure. Changed ticket once and went up and down cine several times just to buy the movie tickets ha. Apart from that we also makaned at Xin wang char chan ting. not bad la... ate pork chop cheese pasta lor . =] two boiled eggs and a butter and sugar toast. full dinner.

after the show which ended at abt 1plus we went to istana park there to chill... after chill and saw some weird indians stroling ard like trying to see us like that we left that place and headed for home... kk...

back to work, i am busy with my giro and hopefully i can do it well during this december period~! gotta sleep early tonight... yesterday slept so late....

lastly... i haven do my christmas shopping yet... but i have sorta churn out a list already~ ! ;) HO HO HO.....

Maid

I got a new maid!!

Amazing but true ha. Her name is something indri...wati. She is 23 (well atleast according to her). I believe that she jus came in yesterday (13th December 2008, Saturday). No notice at all!

Anyway I think it's a good thing too. That way, my mum can relax from all the hse work already.. and my level's toilet mirror is also removed off the newspaper and magazine 'wraps'. Now i can use the toilet mirror!! Hee.

She is currently using the guest room in my hse too.

That's abt the maid news.

Yesterday I had lotsa fun~. Went out with Daphne. yup she is 32. I worked so I waited for her in office and did some work clearing until she woke up at abt 2pm ? ha.. we were suppose to confirm the time and location etc. I waited for several hours before we met at Harbour Front station at 5.20pm:)

Right after, we went to do some shopping and look out for restaurant to go to for our christmas eve dinner =] well, but ofcoz the dinner doesnt consist of jus me and her la.... she is inviting alot of her guy friends for the christmas dinner too ? it's likely that we will be settling at jack's Place at Marina square... after which we plan to go St james power hse to club the night away.

Just when i tot i may not have plans for christmas hee.

Anyway after our dinner at harbour front food court we shopped a little more before we proceeded to Marina Mandarine to chill out. I had scatcherback and she had a mocktail. At 1.30am we ordered fries to eat and continue chatting. Finally we left at 4am to take cab home... First dropped her at Bendemeer where she lives den headed back to hougang home.... and the cab fare was just $16.20. Way cool.

Today by right have to go for run de but coz went out so late so wont be doing so already. Hope my power remains!

Wad else.... other than working hard to spend the money which i got from my year end bonus, i am also working hard to earn them back via some part time jobs given by vivian and kiki ~! so as i spend, i work.. in that sense i try to balance things up a little so that i dun overspend... as christmas season is around the corner, gifts etc are on the list baby... shopping too... so i gotta watch my money traffic!!

Another update.. i have moved to the new office in level 3. it's way cool~ i hope it would be a great new beginning.

Lastly I hosted the 2008 Year End party for my section. It was a total wham! and success and I thoroughly enjoyed the whole of the party. It's also thanks to the great organizing team that everything could turn out so good. Joanne, Ivy, Fariza and ofcoz myself.... Joanne plans mainly the game and helps with coodination with Ivy on the prizes, Fariza on the food and myself for program arrangement plus ideas. So I planned the program itinary and helped with the logistics. Together we also decorated the party area to give it the best christmas feel there is. It was a success and I was all smiles that day.

Next up, it's time to step up on my boxing training and work performance in the work place!

GAMBATE!!

Singlehood and upcomingz..... and past few weeks!

woo i have been single for how long le...... dun even know which is the exact day i should count myself as being truely single ? coz the beginning of breakup wasnt easy... we still wanna behave as though we are still together or we belonged to one another when it was just the opposite which we need to get used to..

there are times i wish there is always a someone who can company me whenever i needed that someone or anyone... but when i dun get that somebody and is left alone to ponder over what over things tat has yet been done or is coming in the near future, i realised that i can actually take the free time that i have to accomplish them. Rather than to just think about going out or just have someone to cling to. Yes, cling on to, or have someone cling on me and haf some fun.. for eg. today i am really tired coz of yesterday's intensive and wonderful boxing training :0 and yet towards the end of the day i am thinking abt who i can ask to go out or to makan and kill (or waste time) with. and ofcoz i didnt manage to find anyone and that is why i am here now, updating my blog? :P i gotta do everything quick tonight baby... and hey, it's gotta be early lights out tonight coz tmr's ganna be another long day at work then some good training coming ahead baby.... u betcha.

Some announcements: This is official

My Boxing Competition Date Has Been Set:
Mr Fish is going to Fight for His First National Boxing Title.

Date : 10th & 11th January 2009 (My Bdae is on the 15th btw)
Location : To be confirmed.

This will be the match of the Decade for me. My Goal is to take the Title and show the whole world what I am capable of. My belief in myself that I have the talent and what it takes, the mantle to become a Champ! I wanna make it happen. I WILL MAKE IT HAPPEN. My friend in my gym say: Keep going Jim, if you can endure this (training) you can make it. Another Boxing friend of mine say: "Go Jim, you are the hope for the national team in your weight category". I wanna thank these people for believing in me, for believing that I can do it, for wanting to see me make it, for lifting me up when I needed the boost. I win the fight for all these people who are right behind me in full force when I do ma battle. I will settle for nothing less. This shall be my biggest success and celebration in my Martial arts journey till this day. I will rejoice and my people shall rejoice with me.

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The dating scene...
Recently I met up with Jess... she is like 35 yrs old? ha. kinda cute girl though... we caught a show together and wad show was that... ah that show with Leonardo di kopi o... Body of Lies of coz man..... haha.... really coollll .... when some guys were shot in the show or when some bomb blast off, killing many , she would go, "oh no....". so cute haha.. like the bullets are going to fly out the cinema screen like that =P. after that we went to that outdoor 'cafe' like place? just outside heeren? ordered a beer, holegarden with several honey wings and chilled the night away...

And most recently... say Friday? i cant remember... i went out with Thiri a 21 yr old Myanmar girl. and we watch a cartoon movie together! hee so nice.... we watched Bolt - 3D version! and I had to pay ofcoz! =x $15.00 each ticket baby... =D worth the money though.... had pepper lunch at suntec before catching the 9.30pm show that ended at 11.30pm? woo... i picked her up at serangoon where she lives, at the interchange and then we headed for suntec for our get together. kinda joked and went through the whole day yawning no less than a hundred times! =x shall ask her out again~

of most recent i went out with ris to rochor to get her bus ticket to johor to visit her friend during the chinese new year period on sunday den we went on to little india and had a great time! or was it rochor . nvm.. we ate mee rubus and char quae tiao for dinner =) afterwhich it's home sweet home.... earlier on the same day Ris and I met and went to have our lunch at orchard far east plaza in an Indonesian restaurant, where she offered to treat :) the meal cost a total of $24.00 I was introduced to gado gado, an Indon type of salad that tasted pretty unique and acceptable for my tastebuds. after that, we headed down to St Regis Hotel where I got a one hour show, helping Vivian do an event as a face painter. So for that one hr Ris helped out as a photograher hee.. while i painted on the kids faces and hands to destress. I made them look like monkeys and even dogs and they still left with smiling faces. i guess the glitters did the work!

btw jess is from hongkong, thiri is from myanmar and ris is from indonesia.. am i going international or wad... %-

Tata.

Urgent Leave and Need for New Phone..

I am on urgent leave today!!

Got things to do la... Met up with Wendy today =] had breakfast at Lavendar. 2 soft boiled eggs each, 1 piece of bread each and one glass of ice milo each!! We met up just to catch up and had a great time together =) as she took half day off she left for work nearing to 1pm 0_o. Oops. gonna be a bit late... Took the train with her till Outram and we parted there. The other reason I took leave? I had to visit my chinese doctor to get my wrist and bruised knuckles treated again.

I went to ah ma hse there de Quan Qi Tao for treatment :) they got really good and nice physicians there, although i dun really fancy the treatment process..

After the treatment i went to ah ma hse to see ah ma and take back two things. one the is monkey that june bought for me and the other the ring she bought for me. Both of which I left at granny hse, one is forgot to take, the other is put there for safe keeping.. wonderful... now i got two damn BIG soft toys on ma bed.... hope dun have any side effects coming from my mum or dad. I shall post their pics up soon ha. That aside, ah ma took two jabs on her knee to treat her reumatism pain. Coming sat she will be taking one last jab into her knee and hopefully the pain goes away from her knee for good.. she gotta exercise more!

Nowadays I really spend money like water.. mostly on myself though... now i really do know how to pamper and take good care of myself le... coz no longer got people give special attention le, have to take over the role ha. So wad's my latest purchase? EPA DHA fish oil that cost me $70.00 !!! *ka bish* *falls off chair* ... I know it's kinda ex for 130 capsules but it works well for me so I just buy lor.. hopefully it serve me well for the next one or two months. I am really tired of feeling tired. I want to be enegetic and full of life every single day of my life. I will take responsibility. God please support me. I so happen to help kiki with 2 shows yesterday night and earned $70.00 so I guess it's not too bad.

And Yes, i almost forgot abt Lydiana's bdae celebration. It's one filled with lots of anger, hatred and frustration lol.. Won't explain why though.. Nevertheless I bought Lydiana a cute mouse piggy bank from Precious thoughts that cost more than $10 and less than $20! We had New York New York for lunch and I must say the food is pretty good. Knowing that I got mild sore throat June bought me my favourite Hudsons cough drop that always work for me. Thank you again and sorry for many other things. On top of that, she bought a nice post card like, card with words of encouragement the 3 guys present, inclusive of myself for Christmas present. Thank her again for her thoughts. It's still with her btw so gotta take from her again when we are both free. .

MY PHONE...
My current phone sucks! it has already gone nuts! idiotic! Now i am looking at either iPhone or HTC touch screen phone... they are really catching my eyes.... hopefully singtel christmas promo offers something good and i can upgrade, which will entitle me a $100.00 off the phone charge plus if i trade in my K800i I am sure I can get a great deal. Now, sit back and pray.

For comparisons between the phones of the two brands see links below~ :

http://www.apple.com/iphone/features/
http://www.htc.com/www/product/touch3g/gallery.html

Pens off~